why being husband and wife seem to be burden nowaday??
why is having kids being marriage de burden??
why isn there any communication between husband and wife??
because of education level ma? if u mind ur husband hav a lower education level why did u get married wif him anyway?? after getting married u mind about his education level.. mind about him smoking.. mind about him drinking.. mind about him gambling.. dun u know that he hav all this attitude when u 1stly know him? why can u accept him when u guys are pak tohing and after u get married u wan him to change?? i just dun get it.. i also girl.. but i am not that 'da siao jie'.. i know wat i wan.. u like him u should accept everything of him.. if he willing to change for u that's an extra.. a bonus for u.. but why would u force.. ok.. because of ur forcing.. he change.. he didn wanna smoke in front of u.. he smoke behind u.. he try not smoking so much.. it's all becausehe didn wan u to be angry.. i think he is a very nice husband wif a very nice 'pi chi'.. then, u having ur 'da siao jia' attitude.. didn give him face.. even during cny u didn gv him face in front of all his relatives u ran away from home.. wat kind of wife u are?? cant u wait angry at him later??
ok.. after that.. having kids.. as a mum urself.. u stil like that.. u are already very sing fu liao.. u wan eat wat ur husband surely will bring u go eat.. ya.. ur salary sure higher.. u think ur husband tolerate because of that ma? is because he love u and the child.. why did u hav to take it tat the child is urs.. and u dun respect ur husband.. didn wanna discuss anything wif him?? is the kid belong only to u.. he dun even hav the right to determine where he suppose to study?? n he do all the trouble.. working harder just to gv u and the kids better life.. u say u wan new car.. he get u a new car.. u say wan this he get u that.. u wan go there eat he bring u go.. now u like the queen and he is like a slave.. still not enough ma? quarrel everyday.. having a kids really that sing ku ma? cant tolerate ma?
husband is hanging on wif u because of the kids.. i know if divorce he will lost his right on both kids.. she hav higher education and through her behaviour she surely won let go of the 2 kids.. and husband hanging on just for the sake of the kids.. she just dun gv him any face.. scold him in publi and dun respect him.. last time i thought all this only happen in tv series.. i didn know that in reality.. this would happen.. i didn know that in reality there is someone actually behaving like this..
this is why all the while.. i say i dun like guys behaving like this like this and like this i really mean it.. i didn wan me to regret.. and for sure being wif me.. education level must be higher than me.. i dun wan all this to happen.. but i now doubt about relationship.. guess i dun really trust on relationship that much anymore.. having all relationship is so fragile around me..
one saying i hav for myself.. being in a relationship is like having a timebomb by ur side.. can just explode anytime.. no one can guaranttee anything from a relation.. u might be able to get someone great that be wif u all ur life.. how if ur relationship turn to tragedy after u hav kids.. kids become victims??
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